The following is something I send to everyone I get together with. Copying and pasting, nothing personal (posting here because it good too large for texting);

1) I’ll always show up for our time together, and I keep my word. Please Venmo me a 50% security deposit to confirm our time and date together. I’ll set aside the time you, and block my schedule for you. This deposit unfortunately became necessary to protect my schedule. I have a doctorate degree, my time is valuable, and so is yours.

2) Once you send the deposit, I set time aside for you, block my schedule for you, and we’ll be fully confirmed. This measure has to be in place to weed out people who are not serious about meeting. I’m serious about offering you a memorable time, and an upscale, great experience. Looking forward to it.

3) A few weeks ago, on a Wednesday, 5 guys canceled on me. And I hadn’t booked anyone else, because they were scheduled. That’s when I realized I needed this security deposit measure. What I offer is unique, and there are no other guys like me out there, so I’ve been doing a security deposit with every client ever since these 5 guys canceled on me. There are trolls out there who book just to not show up.

4) From a rational side, professional escorts on Rent Men have no reason to steal from you, what’s really valuable for an escort is seeing someone multiple times, not just one time, so everyone wants to keep a good reputation.
It’s not in my slightest interest to steal chump change, tarnish my reputation, when we can definitely meet 5 times, 10 times, more than that, etc. I have no reason to steal, not a single reason. All guys I see book me again.

It’s in my full interest to make the full amount, not just 50%, and get together multiple times. Moreover, I think we are going to have a great time too, and I love what I do.

5) I have 5 star reviews. It’s my full interest to make 100%, not just 50%, and to be best I can so you’ll want to see me multiple times. I’m a respected professional in healthcare, I have strong standards, and you can fully trust me.

6) In order for us to have a high quality time from the start, including starting from this text exchange, I strongly prefer you give me a vouch of trust (it’ll make me like you more. When you insinuate I’m a scammer, that doesn’t make me like you very much: not great for someone you’re going to have sex with, so things already don’t start off great).

7) I also prefer you do the deposit, so we get part of the rate out of the way smoothly, to make things the least transactional possible and focus on the good time/connection. All my clients pay me the deposit without a problem and I never, ever, ever flaked on anyone. I always show up.

8) I spend from 30 to 45 minutes preparing for our meeting: showering, getting dressed, etc. Getting ready and having a no-show is frustrating. Please show up and let’s have a good time.

Does this work for you? Send me a text with your thoughts, thank you. I know this is plenty of text, so please re-read it, and I’m sure you can see Reason. I hope you can understand my side.

Please ask for my Venmo username or text me your Venmo username :) My Paypal is To avoid paying a PayPal fee, choose the option Friends and Family instead of Goods and Services. Untick the Goods and Services box if it's there, it's right below the amount. If you don’t see the option Friends and Family, tap “Goods and Services” and the choice for Friends and Family will show up. Steps:
1) Access
2) Enter the amount and click continue
3) Log in or enter your details
4) RIGHT UNDER THE DOLLAR AMOUNT, if there's a "Paying for an Item" option, UNTICK that box, or TAP the > on the right of Paying for an Item, and choose SENDING TO A FRIEND, so you and I don't pay their high fee.
5) Tap Send Payment Now after you make sure it's changed to Sending to a Friend, and if there's a paying for an Item box, that box is unticked. Thanks

I also have Zelle if needed. Thank you, I’m looking forward to getting together with you soon.

Annonymous ways of sending the deposit:

Money order



Coinbase, Bitcoin or Litecoin